What’s it like to be a sex writer? Last month, I gave you a peek.
But I’m always writing about my life, every month.
I wrote about my sex life in a recent article on Medium entitled, A Year of Casual Sex With Random Men Led Me to the Perfect Guy:
Last night, after taking me to dinner at a beautiful restaurant, my man presented me with a gift. Well, it was a gift for both of us. It was a vibrating cock ring that gives stimulus to my clit while he is inside me. He’s always trying to make sex better for me.
I’m pretty lucky to have a wonderful partner. Incredibly, I met him after I spent a year having a lot of sex with different men.
Maybe that will answer what my life as a sex writer is like… Sexually free!
I also wrote about my sex life in a piece I published earlier in the month on Medium: With So Many Sex Toys for Women, Why Bother Having Sex With Men?
My boyfriend and I had a quickie the other morning. Well, I did. With a vibrating dildo in my butt, one in my pussy, and a sucker on my clit, I pulsated myself toward a shivering orgasm.
Suddenly, I wondered: was my boyfriend even necessary during this pleasure session? What role had he played in getting me off? The sensations were all coming from my toys. I could have just as easily achieved then big O without him.
Of course, I end the piece with my opinion that my man is very much necessary for my pleasure.
My dildo will never replace my boyfriend. As much as I love my favorite magic wand, I’m not in love with it.
Hopefully this sheds more light on the juicy details of my life.
A few weeks ago, I also shared the tale of going to a sex club in an era of endemic Covid.
Although people were getting down in the basement of this club, it was only happening as couples. There weren’t the threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes that I used to see in pre-pandemic times. No group sex.
I end the article with my view that it’s going to take a little longer before our lives get back to whatever they were before this pandemic started.
So there you have it! If you have any more questions about my life as a sex writer, please don’t hesitate to ask.
Thanks so much for reading!
xxoo, Emme