"You don’t even have to have sex at the club for it to be beneficial to your relationship."
I'm glad you emphasized this, because the vast majority of swingers in the world will not hesitate to point out that the lifestyle is not a cure for a sexless, possibly dying, relationship. My wife has indicated her willingness to return to the lifestyle---yet only for "the socializing aspect" as she puts it. While that isn't the optimum for me (the one who wants to have sex with others), I will certainly accept it as a form of foreplay.
As I've mentioned before, both I and my wife are very, very self-conscious about our age and our current body types; any club visits may not happen for some time, if at all. A member of an online swinger community I discovered told me that "all shapes, sizes, and ages" are part of that community, and that everyone has to "own their sexy." Nonetheless, their profile photos and other proffered pictures betrayed that claim. I have also learned that while the BBW is always a welcome addition to such venues and events, her male counterpart is shunned like a leper.
In other words, I don't trust the sex-positive and swinger communities to live by what they claim. It's the HWP world out there, and we don't qualify.
So glad to know your PayPal email is sane. 😉
"You don’t even have to have sex at the club for it to be beneficial to your relationship."
I'm glad you emphasized this, because the vast majority of swingers in the world will not hesitate to point out that the lifestyle is not a cure for a sexless, possibly dying, relationship. My wife has indicated her willingness to return to the lifestyle---yet only for "the socializing aspect" as she puts it. While that isn't the optimum for me (the one who wants to have sex with others), I will certainly accept it as a form of foreplay.
As I've mentioned before, both I and my wife are very, very self-conscious about our age and our current body types; any club visits may not happen for some time, if at all. A member of an online swinger community I discovered told me that "all shapes, sizes, and ages" are part of that community, and that everyone has to "own their sexy." Nonetheless, their profile photos and other proffered pictures betrayed that claim. I have also learned that while the BBW is always a welcome addition to such venues and events, her male counterpart is shunned like a leper.
In other words, I don't trust the sex-positive and swinger communities to live by what they claim. It's the HWP world out there, and we don't qualify.