This provides a valuable perspective for me. I've been very much like your ex-husband. While I haven't slept with multiple women, I have had brief encounters of a D/s nature (me as the sub) with a few (20+ years ago). I continue to have online encounters even though I know this disgusts her. I think to myself, if she'd just have sex with me, or at least some flirting or other intimacy, I could get over that. Your experience shows me that my infidelity is the cause of her lack of desire. I'vr bren at it so long, though, I'm not sure I can pull myself away from the porn. I need to try, though. Thanks for shsring your experience.
This provides a valuable perspective for me. I've been very much like your ex-husband. While I haven't slept with multiple women, I have had brief encounters of a D/s nature (me as the sub) with a few (20+ years ago). I continue to have online encounters even though I know this disgusts her. I think to myself, if she'd just have sex with me, or at least some flirting or other intimacy, I could get over that. Your experience shows me that my infidelity is the cause of her lack of desire. I'vr bren at it so long, though, I'm not sure I can pull myself away from the porn. I need to try, though. Thanks for shsring your experience.